change x adapt

some people are noticing a lot of changes in my style lately; and the same question that crossed their minds was "WHY did you change?"

um, i do not have an answer to that question but,

dear, i did not change

there're just a lot of different sides within me and i showed a distinct part to a certain person in a particular situation.

other than style, my behaviour is also flexible depending on the person whom i face with. i might be able to fake a laugh to a joke that i didn't find funny or pretend to understand a topic which i haven't even heard, BUT, that's not because i want to stay on the safe zone (or whatever you want to call it). it's just that what builds me; me. it's very natural for me to do so.

well, let's be honest and face the fact that the world sees something different oddly. people judge, we do judge, and first impression gives a huge impact. i always think that modifying oneself to fit in happens all the time whenever he/she is placed to a new environment. but hey - "different is good! we are born unique, so embrace it". that's true! i gave it a thought thoroughly and yes, God mould us to be different so every mankind can complete each other. 

so, let me be clear, modifying to fit in has the meaning of ADAPT - and that doesn't include changing a whole self to be someone else; but to show several traits that is ... acceptable to the society. adapt is a basic instinct of every human needs to improve and that characteristic is born with us. it's your choice to give it a chance to grow or let it gone. 

so, again my friend, i did not change. it's just me; adapting - and i can be anything just the way i like it. i didn't change to please people, it's just what i think suits me best.

wore: liora bags red-orange bag, unbranded top, melbourne handmade necklace, diy bracelet, retail therapy clogs

cheers,

sartob